Thursday, April 15, 2010

Woman Rights

I watch Oprah's show today and today one of the slot is discussing about this lady name Gloria Steinem. I don't have any idea what is so special about her but finally i discover that she did make lots of changes and she does give an impact to all the women's life in this world including me. They did talk about marriage and this is what she said, "Someone asked me why women don't gamble as much as men do, and I gave the commonsensical reply that we don't have as much money. That was a true and incomplete answer. In fact, women's total instinct for gambling is satisfied by marriage". I feel this is totally true, the moment a woman have a relationship with a guy, they always give everything to satisfy the guy that she loves, never care about what is in return. All they want is the person to love her back. This is totally gambling. Another thing when she touch that most of the women thinks that marriage is the one and only way to change their life. But they never thinks about the thing that are going to face after marriage. For me this totally gambling. I never realize this matter and this totally change my thinking about marriage. She is true about a woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle. I always worried the moment I saw most of my friends already get married and engangeg and my family members always ask me to get marry but when the moment I heard she said "At my graduation, I thought we had to marry what we wished to become. Now you are becoming the men you once would have wished to marry". She inspire me to change my life, instead of searching a guy who can complete myself, and keep on waiting and waiting which I am not really sure when, she inspire me to change myself to be better and not to hope to a guy to make ourself a perfect person. Yes, it is true also when she also mention about "Marriage works best for men than women. The two happiest groups are married men and unmarried women". I am not against marriage. I would be happy if a guy will purpose me, but like I mention before, why we have to gamble our future and life just for the word "I am married". So single ladies out there, don't be upset about being single. At least you are not becoming slave to the marriage. For me, marriage is not the subject that I love to discuss at the moment. Yes of course I want to get married but I just leave this to His hand.


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